The most important thing I realized is that painful breakups, unrequited love, shitty jobs and the like help us to BUILD CHARACTER and that no matter how bad it feels, we are much better off because of it. Sometimes you have to stand alone to make sure you can. Forget what you want to remember what you deserve.You may not end up where you thought you'd be, but you'll always end up where you were meant to be. You can either let these bad things, define you, destroy you or strengthen you. Fight through it like a warrior. Greater things are to come.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

30 Day Meme: Day 2 & 3

im sorry. im really bad at keeping up. haha
Read the intro to this: here

Day 02 - Where you’d like to be in 10 years

10 years is a really long time to consider seeing i've been currently living day by day, week by week. i try not to think so far which is not very wise but that's the current mode i am in. In ten years i shall be 33/34 and hopefully by then i would have had an established career in a field that I can devote myself to and a job i am passionate about. Preferably somewhere along the lines of design....weddings....publishing....layouts....things like that! Obviously my dream is to be paid a ridiculous amount to blog (about weddings) but at the moment i feel like i'm not entertaining enough to do so lol and its a stiff competition market like any of the other industry i want to enter.

It's very hard to picture where i will be in 10 years because i'm currently going through that "trying to find myself" "trying to find my passion" stage so anything can change. If you asked me the same question 10 years ago i would have probably given a completely different answer. I don't know what the "30"s consists of when i barely know what to expect in the next five years. I would like by this age to have at least traveled to Asia and Europe.

I do hope by that age though i would have at leastttttt finally met "that" person. But that's me being optimistic. hahaha. I might have to give lavalife a try if by 34 i have yet to meet anybody : ( lolllllllllll

Regardless of what age l am at, i want to be happy and be surrounded by the people that means the most to me. 

Day 03 - Your views on drugs and alcohol.

AH. hahaha. This is an interesting one. What are MY views on drugs and alcohol. lol Lets start off with what people perceive as my favorite beverage (next to starbucks), alcohol. Since i am apparently an alcoholic to most people, clearly i do not think there is anything wrong with alcohol. That said i do have a problem with people not knowing their limits and drinking until they're puking their dinner, lunch and breakfast out. The purpose of drinking is to enhance the "fun-ness" of the particular event/occasion.....not to get plastered to the point of blacking out. That kids, is no fun. I also don't believe in drinking yourself to death when you're depressed/sad. You're actually much worst off when intoxicated and sad at the same time. It actually doesn't take away the pain as most people think, in fact it amplifies it (take it from someone who was a sad emo when i first started drinking). Contrary to most people's belief that i am an alcoholic- i am just a really easy-going (i won't decline a drink) social drinker that can hold her a drink a little bit more than most Asian girls. I'm NOT a tank, i'm not a machine. It just seems that way because i don't get the Asian flush and also because i am bigger than most typical China dolls, so holding that much amount of liquid is an easy job. But really i am just as weak as any girl.

I always say, "Drink for the buzz, not for the hangover" and i think anybody who drinks should aim for that and not be abusive about it. That of course is just my opinion. What do i know right?

As for drugs i don't really have much opinion on it so this is going to be short. The more serious shit (coke, dust, etc) is obviously for the fucked-up. It kills people. That's what i have to say about that. Nothing further. The more widely-used drugs (weed and smokes) is where i take a neutral stand on. I don't frown at people when they take hits around me nor do i tell people to stop smoking. That said though, i have never tried smoking because i promised my dad that i wouldn't. It's people's choice to smoke and who am i to tell them to stop. Besides, i hang around far too many people that smokes to do anything about it lol

This entire rant is completely biased because clearly i am exposed to both drug and alcohol usage situations so i really don't think anybody should take me seriously lol



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